Monogamy has been a topic I’ve wanted to blog about for a while. I never knew how I wanted to approach the subject. It is akin to religion, something you don’t bring up in mixed company because so many are so passionate about their position.
If you don’t know my stance, I am anti-monogamy. Why? I never believed it could work. I always believed that when a relationship is labeled as monogamist, then it becomes stifling. Don’t get me wrong, I have seen some relationships where monogamy worked for them, but I’ve seen many more where non-monogamist relationship worked better.
I’ll be the first to say that I don’t judge and I don’t knock what anyone wants to try. I’ve been known to try something at least twice before I decide it is not for me. I’ve tried monogamy and it’s not for me. I’ve been searching for that someone who is willing to be in an open-ended relationship, but I find men are really big on monogamy.
Which leads into some of my beliefs on this subject. I’ve always felt monogamy was designed to keep women from realizing the beauty and joy that sex with not only your partner, but others as well, can bring. I am all for sexual freedom. As a matter of fact, I am amazed and saddened by the number of people who don’t get their fare share of good sex.
So when I started this blog, I did a google search for monogamy and I found several fascinating sites and articles on the subject. What I’ve decided is to do an individual blog on the articles.
I hope you stay tuned for some riveting dialogue…
